My beautiful sister Dana (see the picture below) obliged me, and wrote a movie review for Blue Valentine... So, enjoy her review! (Thanks, Dana!)
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There is nothing beautiful about this movie. Not reading any reviews before seeing it, I was expecting some
American Beauty type romance, but there was only one scene that came close to achieving a wonderful, intimate love scene.
Blue Valentine follows a day in the life of a married couple on the brink of divorce. Throughout the movie, there are flashbacks five years, depicting the origins of their relationship from the time they first met until their marriage. The story itself is perhaps the most appealing aspect of the movie. The dialog was well written and the minor plot twists kept me interested.
As far as acting, Ryan Gosling (Dean) was amazing. He did an excellent job contrasting current day Dean and five-years-younger Dean, the former being a construction worker with a beer gut and the later being a hopeless romantic Florida boy in the city for the first time. The main actress, Michelle Williams (Cindy) was mediocre. Maybe that is how the script is written, but her character had no dynamic to it whatsoever. The entire time she did nothing but pout about how terrible her life with Dean is. The couple also has a daughter, Frankie, played by Faith Wladyke. Not only is the girl cute, but she can pull heartstrings. There is this scene at the end where Dean is walking away and Frankie runs after him, trying to get him to stay. That little girl's pleas wrenched my heart, by far the most emotional scene (for me) in the movie. I can't wait to see what she does next.
There was some controversy behind the rating of the movie. Originally set as NC-17, the producers of the movie argued their way down to an R rating for the potential of an Academy Award. I think an R rating was appropriate. Yes, there was lots of sex, but no more than previously mentioned American Beauty, not the mention the nudity is minor (relatively).
If you enjoy watching nitty-gritty movies, go watch it. I just felt, personally, like sandpaper was being worked over my soul. It didn't leave me feeling anything except for empty.
There are two redeeming aspects of the movie. First off, Dean makes a comment along the lines of: guys are more romantic because when they do fall in love, they love one girl for eternity, while girls, on the other hand, tend to just settle down with any guy they don't despise when the time is most convenient for them. This comment foreshadowed the whole of Dean and Cindy's relationship, and it gave some purpose to the movie as a whole.
Second, there is a scene where he sing a song for her. Perhaps the most cliche scene in the movie, it is also the cutest.
Here's the song:
Overall rating: C
Go and see it, but don't expect too much. Maybe it's just not my type of movie, but I wouldn't sit through it again.